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Profit and loss

Last summer I was walking through a grocery store and overheard two elderly gentlemen in a discussion. They were talking about the felony convictions of 47. They didn’t doubt he was a criminal felon. They talked about his rapes and they didn’t doubt them. They talked about his narcissism and psychotic tendencies.

And then I overheard one of them saying something I won’t forget.

“Well,” he said, “I’ll probably still vote for him. In the end I reckon he’ll put more money in my pocket than the other guy.”

That made me sad, and I thought about it.

The argument resonated with me because I was born and raised in those circles, so I’ve heard it before.

Cut taxes. Lower prices. Leave more money for all of us.

We were eventually tricked into thinking that this was the whole of the human experience.

I’m all for cutting waste and spending money wisely, but I think we need to remember what Jesus said over and over again.

What shall it profit a man if he gain the whole world and lose his soul?

I don’t think he was thinking about Grecian metaphysics, with a dichotomy between spirit and body. That was a bit of a foreign concept to Jewish thinking.

Soul meant something more profound. It could be translated “life”, or “breath”. Jesus could have been talking about death. What will it profit a man to gain everything this world has to offer and then die.

And that is true. Solomon had the same insights in Ecclesiastes.

But I don’t think that even that exhausts what Jesus is talking about. Because to the mind of a first century Jew, psyche meant something even more than that. It means everything that makes a human a human. It means the self, the part of humanity that was created to reflect God.

Living through these days, I think I am starting to get a glimmer.

If your whole life is consumed by profit, and the whole of your morality is who will leave the most money in your pocket, soon you will lose your very soul.

The music and the dancing. The part that plays with the cat.

The song and the poetry. The art and the novel.

Empathy for the outcast. Love for the neighbor. joy in colors and art and expression.

The glint of a rainbow on the tear of a shepherd, the rapturous joy in the final moments of Beethoven’s fifth symphony.

The chills of the entrance of the trombone in Prokofieff’s third piano concerto; the astounding skill of Caravaggio and the brilliance of Poe.

The perfect pairing of wine with each course of dinner. The beauty and joy of the embrace of love.

The first kiss. The first time someone spoke to you with respect. Your first time making love. Your first embrace.

The first time you found someone and realized that you were wanted and loved.

Standing in the middle of a lonely highway in Wyoming singing Mahler at the top of your lungs after one too many…(not that I have EVER done this).

Growing your hair long, or cutting it short. Wearing an earring, getting a tattoo.

Or having a conversation and sharing a glimpse of your soul in safety, without fear. It took me too long to realize the joy of that. I longed for that and never knew it.

And we forget beauty and freedom and love and joy – because we are afraid.

Egg prices get high. Gas gets high. Somebody is different than I am and wants to come to my church.

And all of the sudden you are afraid that you won’t be good enough or pure enough or strict enough to earn God’s favor because you did something wrong somewhere, or you accepted and loved a sinner, or were friends with a sinner on social media, so now God is going to remove his blessing.

And somewhere along the line, you forgot – Your blessings, your “money in the pocket” doesn’t come from a politician or from making the right choices, or from working hard or running faster or having stronger will power…

It comes from the uncontrollable, unlimited, incredible love and goodness of God.

As my pastor said this morning, “It’s God’s party, and he can invite who he wants.”

And that blows the mind.

Because the love of God is free. His love and blessing for you aren’t dependent on how well you perform. He delights in you and delights in your personality and your dancing and singing. He created you to laugh and sing, even though there are times when we weep and mourn – the laughter will come again. If we don’t crush it out of fear.

And when you know and feel that love of God given so freely to you, suddenly love becomes far more important that how much money is in the pocket. And then you might see that God’s resources are unlimited. There is enough for everyone. But God is calling us to step away from our vaults and our counting machines and our investment portfolios and our fear and learn to dance again.

Cast your bread upon the waters, For you will find it after many days. Give a serving to seven, and also to eight, For you do not know what evil will be on the earth. (Ecclesiastes 11:1-2)

Paul and Silas sang in prison. We can sing with expensive eggs. Maybe that is the lesson God is showing us. That the price of eggs isn’t worth the price of the soul.

Sing, dance, paint, write a poem. And more importantly than even that –

Let your neighbor draw, sing, paint, write and dance. His enrichment might actually enrich you.

It certainly won’t make you poorer.

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The Proverbs 31 Woman

This is something that has been germinating in my head for a long time. Remember – this is a blog, and not a theological treatise. The purpose is simply to spark imagination and meditation down perhaps a different line.

The genre of Proverbs is “wisdom literature”. Proverbs are not laws, nor are they epistles, nor are they history books. They are short, pithy statements designed to be meditated on and remembered. They are to be savored, floated over the tongue, read aloud, tasted, tasted again…

Perhaps this is why so many people who are “black and white” oriented have such a hard time with them. For example, neo-reformed theologians are notoriously short on imagination, and tend to think that everything in the bible is about making other people know their place.

So when the Proverbs speak about sons and rods, they can’t see anything other than beating children.

And when Proverbs speaks of an “excellent woman”, they can’t help but think of a list of rules designed to keep women in line.

But maybe that isn’t what it is about at all.

 

Proverbs is a book about wisdom. Read the first nine chapters. The first nine chapters introduce us to two women: Lady Folly, and Lady Wisdom. Lady Wisdom is with God from before all worlds. Lady Wisdom guides the feet in the right path. Lady Wisdom leads to health and life, and is more valuable than rubies. If you have Lady Wisdom, you have life.

Naturally, we don’t have Wisdom. We are allured by Lady Folly into the paths of death and ruin. But if we ask for wisdom, if we diligently seek her as we seek for hidden treasures, the Lord will give her to us.

Then we will find life. We will avoid the pitfalls and temptations of drunkenness, fornication, laziness, greed, pride – and all the other things that lead to ruin.

But if we find Wisdom, our lives will be rescued from destruction and our feet saved from the pit…

And then we go into the long pithy sayings of the differences between wisdom and folly. These were compiled over the centuries and put together into the inspired book we have now.

As the book concludes, we read about a woman again. She is described in many of the same images and types as she is throughout the whole book. He who finds her finds a good thing.

She is worth more than rubies. Her paths lead to life and beauty and order. The one who finds this woman finds success and thrives. Her children call her blessed.

Maybe, seen in the light of the whole of Proverbs, this isn’t about a list of duties to keep proper women in line. Perhaps this is again the urging of the Holy Spirit to find wisdom or die.

 

If you read chapter 8 carefully, wisdom is personified. She is exalted, and she is searching for her children. She is begging mankind to turn in to her and away from folly.

And throughout the history of the Church, theologians of every kind have seen Christ in Proverbs 8. HE is the wisdom of God, who was made flesh.

He calls us. He searches for us. And he begs us to find him and find life.

And he is also freely given by God to all who diligently seek him.

“Her children rise and call her blessed” – Agur

“Wisdom is justified of her children” – Jesus

“Here am I, and the children you have given men” – Isaiah, quoted by the writer to the Hebrews.

Do you see where I am going?

Now, read Proverbs 31 again.

Proverbs 31:10–31 (NIV)

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

      10 A wife of noble character who can find?
          She is worth far more than rubies.
       11 Her husband has full confidence in her
          and lacks nothing of value.
       12 She brings him good, not harm,
          all the days of her life.
       13 She selects wool and flax
          and works with eager hands.
       14 She is like the merchant ships,
          bringing her food from afar.
       15 She gets up while it is still night;
          she provides food for her family
          and portions for her female servants.
       16 She considers a field and buys it;
          out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
       17 She sets about her work vigorously;
          her arms are strong for her tasks.
       18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
          and her lamp does not go out at night.
       19 In her hand she holds the distaff
          and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
       20 She opens her arms to the poor
          and extends her hands to the needy.
       21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
          for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
       22 She makes coverings for her bed;
          she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
       23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
          where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
       24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
          and supplies the merchants with sashes.
       25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
          she can laugh at the days to come.
       26 She speaks with wisdom,
          and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
       27 She watches over the affairs of her household
          and does not eat the bread of idleness.
       28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
          her husband also, and he praises her:
       29 “Many women do noble things,
          but you surpass them all.”
       30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
          but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
       31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
          and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

If you hold to this as an instruction manual on how proper wives are to behave, there are only two end results:

1 – either despair. You give up and say that living the Bible is too hard and you can’t do it – maybe you don’t have enough faith, or God doesn’t love you enough.

OR 2 – pride. Worse than giving up is the conclusion that you have accomplished the proper Proverbs 31 wife role. And you join the ranks of the Church Ladies who look with scorn on those who haven’t quite accomplished it.

The children of folly are ugly, aren’t they?

But wisdom is justified of her children. Wisdom’s children rise up and call her blessed.

When you seek diligently after wisdom, and the Lord grants you wisdom, then your words change, your actions change. You find life and peace and beauty and order.

Not because you sought to exalt yourself above your neighbor by baking your own bread, homeschooling your kids, growing your own flax and trying your damndest to be the proper Proverbs 31 wife…

But because you sought wisdom in the only place it can be found:

2 My son, if you accept my words
          and store up my commands within you,
       2 turning your ear to wisdom
          and applying your heart to understanding—
       3 indeed, if you call out for insight
          and cry aloud for understanding,
       4 and if you look for it as for silver
          and search for it as for hidden treasure,
       5 then you will understand the fear of the LORD
          and find the knowledge of God.
       6 For the LORD gives wisdom;
          from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. (Proverbs 2:1-6)

And where do we find that wisdom? Only in Christ. He is become wisdom for us that we might find life in him. And then, of course, if your skills and love are growing flax and baking bread and sewing garments, have at it, whether you are male or female, because this isn’t about that. It is about finding wisdom and the life that comes from it.

30 It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. 1 Corinthians 1:30 (NIV)

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Absolute Truth and Wisdom

I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard the phrase “Christian world and life view” – or “Christian life and world view”. I grew up with Rushdoony, Van Til, Schaeffer, Bahnsen, theonomy and reconstructionism. So we heard it a LOT.

I don’t know how it started. Maybe Abraham Kuyper. But the big proponents now are primarily the loony cults such as the one out of Moscow, Idaho (you know who you are.)

There have been so many books written on it, that it is hard to summarize, but the idea is this. If you are a Christian, you know the truth. If you know the truth, it colors everything you do. You now have a Christian world a life view. It affects your politics, your view of marriage and family, your view of schooling, history, math, science, art, music and liberal arts. It colors how you view health care and economics (my Dad used to travel to Christian economic conferences).

It was exhausting. Eventually I asked myself, “What is the difference, really, between a “Christian doctor” and a “non-Christian doctor”? In my experience, the Christian doctors were usually the ones who refused to take insurance, fill out government forms, or provide any help for depression or anxiety…but I digress.

Is there a difference, really, between “Christian math” and “non-Christian math”?

Of course, the biggest enemy was either Postmodernism or Secular Humanism, depending on which era you lived in.

The postmodernists, we were told, rejected absolute truth. We as Christians, of course, believe in absolute truth.

And, as luck would have it, absolute truth coupled with a Christian World and Life View means that I am right on everything, have God’s blessing, and anyone who disagrees is a fool at best, and most likely an unbeliever.

If you think I am exaggerating, try having a discussion with one of them. Try sending your kid to a public school.

And here is where the problem comes in.

First of all, let me be clear, I believe in absolute truth. I believe that there are things that are true without question, and cannot be otherwise.

And here is the first thing that is absolutely true. I am an idiot, and don’t understand even a fraction of what is true.

Proverbs 30 puts it nicely:

    2      Surely I am more stupid than any man,
     And do not have the understanding of a man.
     3      I neither learned wisdom
     Nor have knowledge of the Holy One.

    4      Who has ascended into heaven, or descended?
     Who has gathered the wind in His fists?
     Who has bound the waters in a garment?
     Who has established all the ends of the earth?
     What is His name, and what is His Son’s name,
     If you know?
The New King James Version (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1982), Prov 30:2–4.

It the typical paradox of theological truth, we know that there is absolute truth. And we also know that the wisdom and understanding to have access to that truth only comes from God.

And we know that God gives wisdom and understanding only to those who diligently ask him for it.

And the only ones who diligently ask him for it are those who understand that they are foolish, weak, stupid, brutish, and sinful.

Those who believe that they have knowledge of the ways of the most high, and a special insight into God’s way remain blind, miserable and naked.

16 So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth. 17 Because you say, ‘I am rich, have become wealthy, and have need of nothing’—and do not know that you are wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked—18 I counsel you to buy from Me gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich; and white garments, that you may be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed; and anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see.

The New King James Version (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1982), Re 3:16–18.

But that doesn’t sell books, does it?

Don’t we need the Christian view of home decoration, child rearing, education, politics, economics, medicine, math, science, history, and on and on and on?

Of the making of books there is no end.

And here is where I am.

I don’t know the ways of God, but I trust him.

I don’t know the heart of my transgender neighbor, but I don’t need to. I need to love him and treat him with dignity and respect.

I don’t know what “Christian decor” looks like, except I usually don’t like it.

I have a painting by a pre-Raphaelite painter in my living room (well, a print of it, anyway). It has nipples. That probably doesn’t count. I should probably run to Hobby Lobby and do penance.

I don’t know the difference between Christian music and non-Christian music, but I know what is good and beautiful.

I don’t know the solution to our foreign policy mess or what to do with immigration, or how to fix the economy, but a know a hateful, abusive, sexually violent predator when I see one.

I don’t know how vaccines work. I don’t know how God kept the animals alive on the ark.

I don’t know how an eagle flies for thousands of miles without landing.

I don’t know the ways of a man with a maiden, or why any maiden would want one of them, seeing how they generally lose their minds when a maiden walks by.

I don’t know why I need to make pronouncements about gay marriage, or what 1 Timothy means, or why a woman should wear a veil because of the angels, or what on earth Samson was thinking.

I don’t know why any lawyer would work for Donald Trump, or why anyone would put ketchup on their eggs, or who gives the squirrels enough food for the winter months.

I don’t know how the trees get painted such wonderful colors, or how I can make real choices and God decrees infallibly everything that comes to pass and how these two don’t contradict each other.

I am not infinite. I don’t even have the understanding of a brute.

When I was a kid, I thought that it would be a good idea to stick my finger in a blender to see if the blades would just spin around it.

Spoiler: They didn’t. But I didn’t lose my finger, as my father pointed out to me.

But I know that Jesus said that if I am foolish, weak, ignorant and sinful, I should come to him.

He didn’t promise that he would give me the secrets of the universe.

But he does give me himself. And he loves me and I am learning to love him.

And the more I learn about him, the less willing I am to pretend I am an expert on anything.

What I can do is point you to him.

And what this does is sets me free to love my neighbor, and maybe actually learn something from someone else.

None of us have the monopoly on wisdom, not even if we call it a “Christian world and life view”.

The problem with a “Christian world and life view” is that someone has to determine whose view is the right one.

And then someone has to decide what to do with everyone who disagrees.

And then we are back to crucifixions, racks, and burning stakes.

I’ll take ignorance any day.

I don’t know enough about anything to order a crucifixion. I don’t think anyone else does either.

We also don’t know enough about anything to have contempt for our neighbor.

Maybe, just maybe – I’m wrong about something.

It gives me something to think about, doesn’t it?

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